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Online Harm

Cyberbullying girl

Online Harm

Online abuse can happen anywhere through the following types of digital communication:

    • Social media
    • Text messages and messaging apps
    • Email and private messaging
    • Online chats
    • Through commenting on videos or livestreaming
    • Chatting in online games, including voice chat
    • Technologies such as virtual and augmented reality

How can I stay safe online? 

There are lots of ways that you can stay safe online.

    • Don’t post any personal information online – like your address, email address or mobile number. Don't tell people your last name, the name of your school, sports teams, and the town you live in.
    • Think carefully before posting pictures or videos of yourself, they might be there forever! Before uploading a photo, think about how you would feel if it was seen by a parent or grandparent, a friend’s parent, a teacher or future employer. If you wouldn’t want any of those people to see this photo – then don’t put it on the internet
    • Only accept people you know and trust as friends.
    • Never give out your passwords.
    • Cover your webcam, whenever you’re not using it.
    • Never get together with someone you meet online. If you have only met them in the “internet world” then you don’t know who they really are, people can pretend to be anyone and any age. Speak to your parent or carer about this if people inline are suggesting you do this.
    • Remember that not everyone online is who they say they are.
    • If something online makes you feel uncomfortable, unsafe or worried: leave the device and tell a trusted adult.
    • Be honest about your age - membership rules are there to protect you. If you are too young to sign up, don’t lie about your age.
  •  Staying Safe Online


Sending Nudes

Sending Nudes

Sexting is when someone shares sexual, naked or semi-naked images or videos of themselves or others, or sends sexual messages. It's online abuse if a child or young person is pressured or coerced into creating or sending these types of images. (NSPCC)

Has someone asked you to send a nude?

Sending nudes

What is sexting? - BBC Bitesize

 

Online Blackmail

Online Blackmail

Online blackmail

 

Cyberbullying- What is it?

When should I report my concerns

When should I report my concerns?

If it doesn\'t feel right strapline

 You should report your concerns if;

    • Someone you are talking to online does or says something that makes you feel upset
    • You are worried or uncomfortable,
    • Someone is asking you to do things that you don’t want to,
    • You see something that you don’t like.

 

How can I report when something doesn’t feel right?

How can I report when something doesn’t feel right?

Are you worried about online sexual abuse or the way someone has been communicating with you online?

Make a report to one of CEOP's Child Protection Advisors -Make a report - CEOP Safety Centre

CEOPs website provide useful links to Social Media platforms to report online content concernsStaying Safe Online

 

How can I get help to  remove indecent images from the internet?

How can I get help to  remove indecent images from the internet?

Childline and the Internet Watch Foundation (IWF) created Report Remove to help young people report nude or sexual images and videos that have been shared of them online, to see if they can be removed from the internet.

Please watch the Report Remove | Childline

 

What is Generative Artificial Intelligence (AI)

What is Generative Artificial Intelligence (AI)

An explanation for  younger children

What is Generative AI? | Kids Guide to AI | BrightBYTES

Generative Artificial Intelligence – Good and bad

What do Children and Young People like about Generative Artificial Intelligence?

    • Easy to use
    • Can be accessed on many platforms
    • Explains and breaks down difficult information
    • Offers a different way to learn
    • Can create new things
    • Children can ask questions with no one judging them

(Taken from Childnet cheat sheet)

 

What do children and young people dislike about Generative Artificial Intelligence?

    • Can they trust the information it gives?
    • It can be used to create scams, deepfakes (videos, picture or audio clips made with artificial intelligence to look real) and nude images
    • They might be accused of cheating in school work
    • Information might be biased (tell one side only)
    • It might mean they don’t use their own skills and abilities
    • Takes away meeting people face to face

(adapted from Childnet cheat sheet)

Worried about  your own sexual thoughts or behaviour?

Worried about  your own sexual thoughts or behaviour?

If you're worried about your own sexual thoughts or behaviour, or you're concerned about a friend, you can find help on the Shore website made by the Lucy Faithfull Foundation. This is a safe and anonymous place to get support.

You’ve had sexual thoughts or feelings about younger children - Shore

 

Getting Help to prevent online sexual behaviour

Getting Help to prevent online sexual behaviour

How can I get help to change my online sexual behaviour? - Shore

What do I do if someone is encouraging me to hurt myself

What do I do if someone is encouraging me to hurt myself?

Encouraging or assisting serious self-harm is when someone tries to persuade you to harm yourself, or helps you to harm yourself. This means injuries to yourself like broken bones, deep cuts to the skin or disfigurement. Other serious harm, such as starvation, is also considered. The physical harm doesn't have to be permanent.

It can happen online or offline and can include things like:

        • sending you social media posts telling you to harm yourself
        • sending you links to pro-self-harm or pro-anorexic websites
        • encouraging you to stop taking medication you need
        • someone giving you a razor blade and encouraging you to cut yourself

(Taken from Encouraging serious self-harm | Police.uk)

 

Concerns around  Radicalisation / Extremism/ Terrorism

Concerns around  Radicalisation / Extremism/ Terrorism

Report illegal or harmful information, pictures or videos you  have found on the internet. Staying Safe Online

You can report things like:

    • articles, images, speeches or videos that promote terrorism or encourage violence
    • websites made by terrorist or extremist organisations
    • videos of terrorist attacks

You can make your report without leaving your name and contact details.

 

Report online material promoting terrorism or extremism - GOV.UK

 

Being a responsible Digital User

Being a responsible Digital User

Being online is part of everyday life. It can help you stay connected, learn new things, be creative and have fun. But what you do online can also affect you and other people. Being a responsible digital user means thinking before you post, share, comment or message — and knowing when to ask for help.

Your choices online matter

Every like, share, comment, message or screenshot is a choice. Even if something feels funny, private or harmless at the time, it can have a real impact. Before you post or send something, ask yourself: Would I be okay if this was shared wider? Could this hurt, embarrass or pressure someone else? Would I say this face to face?

Respect people online and offline

Behind every profile, username or screen is a real person. Treat people online with the same respect you would expect in person. Do not share rumours, pile on, pressure someone, make threats, or post things designed to shame or upset them. If a group chat, comment section or online space is becoming harmful, you do not have to join in.

Think before you share

Not everything needs to be shared. This includes screenshots, private messages, photos, videos, someone’s location, personal information, or content that was sent in confidence. If it involves someone else, ask yourself whether you have their permission and whether sharing it could put them at risk.

Do not pressure others — and do not ignore pressure

No one should be made to feel they have to send, post, meet, reply, prove themselves, keep a secret, or do something that makes them uncomfortable. Pressure can happen through jokes, dares, threats, repeated messages, gifts, promises or guilt-tripping. If someone is pressuring you or someone else online, that is not okay — speak to a trusted adult or use a report button on the app or platform.

Protect your privacy

Your personal information is valuable. Think carefully before sharing your full name, school, address, phone number, live location, passwords, daily routines or private details about your life. Check your privacy settings regularly and be careful about accepting friend requests, follows or messages from people you do not know.

Bullying behind a screen is still bullying

It can feel easier to say or share something hurtful when you are behind a screen, but it still affects real people. Online bullying can include name-calling, threats, spreading rumours, sharing embarrassing content, leaving people out on purpose, or encouraging others to pile on. If you see it happening, do not join in. Save evidence if it is safe to do so, report it, block if needed, and tell a trusted adult.

Be careful of scams and fake accounts

Not everyone online is who they say they are. Scammers may use fake accounts, competitions, gaming offers, job opportunities, money-making schemes, relationship messages, or urgent requests to get your attention. Be wary if someone asks for money, personal details, passwords, photos, codes, bank information, or tells you to keep things secret. If something feels too good to be true, rushed, threatening or uncomfortable, pause and speak to someone you trust.

Do not get pulled in by online “hot topics”

Online trends, arguments, challenges and “hot topics” can move fast. Influencers and popular accounts may make something look exciting, funny or harmless, but that does not always mean it is safe, true or fair. Before you comment, share, copy a trend or join a debate, take a moment to check: Is this accurate? Could it upset or harm someone? Am I being pressured to react? You do not have to follow the crowd.

Think carefully about AI

AI can be useful for learning, creativity and problem-solving, but it can also be used to spread fake information, create fake images or videos, copy someone’s voice, or make harmful content look real. Do not use AI to embarrass, trick, bully, threaten or impersonate anyone. If you see something online and you are not sure if it is real, check it with a trusted source or adult before sharing it.

Pause, think, ask for help

Being responsible online does not mean being perfect. Everyone can make mistakes or feel unsure. What matters is noticing when something does not feel right and knowing what to do next. Pause before you post, think before you share, and ask for help if you are worried about yourself or someone else. You deserve to feel safe online

Further Information and resources on online harm